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When we were little kids,our parents,grandparents teachers and all elderS to us taught us one important thing in life : NEVER TO LIE
Every religion every philosphy states the consequences of lying.
We are always ought to speak the truth.

"I will teach you the Truth and the Path leading to the Truth." -Buddha



“ Hold faithfulness and sincerity as first principles.” - Confucius

Zechariah 8:16 These are the things that you shall do: Speak the truth to one another; render in your gates judgments that are true and make for peace;

Prophet Muhammad Saw said Truth takes you towards the Virtue and Virtue takes you towards Heaven. A person keeps on speaking the truth until he is written a true person near Allah and Lying takes you towards sin and sin takes you towards hell. a person keeps on lying until he is written a liar near Allah.


Yes in life speaking the truth is a part of sincerity.Lying often create problems in life.And also often give rise to misunderstandings.

But,

do we all always speak the truth? Its a question to ask urself.

Being mere humans we are not perfect and lying has become a part of our lifes. We sometimes lie without even realising.

Yes it is always wrong to lie to someone
But they are also times where ,not telling the truth is d only way.

Some lies are meant to protect
Some lies are to not hurt any one
Some lies has to be said as
Some lies are to save ourselves,or in some cases others
and

Some lies are just the better choice.

words i couldnt say

In a book- in a box- in the closet
In a line- in a song I once heard
In a moment on a front porch late one june
In a breath inside a whisper beneath the mooon

There it was at the tip of my fingers
There it was on the tip of my tounge
There you were and I had never been that far
There it was the whole world wrapped inside my arms
And I let it all slip away

What do I do now that you're gone
No back up plan no second chance
And no one else to blame
All I can hear in the silence that remains
Are the words I couldnt say

Theres a rain that will never stop fallin
There a wall that I tried to take down
What I should have said just wouldnt pass my lips
So I held back and now we've come to this
And it too late now

What do I do now that your gone
No back up plan no second chance
And no one else to blame
All I can hear in the silence that remains
Are the words I couldnt say

What do I do now that your gone
No back up plan no second chance
And no one else to blame
All I can hear in the silence that remains
Are the words I couldnt say

Diwali 2011

Be it Diwali or deepavali this year it falls on 26th october,and now its 12.08 am jakrta time.
Basically the difference in words comes to arise because of d lingua used,diwali(hindi) deepavali(tamil)..and both means festival of lights.
As many have asked me,do i celebrate diwali.Sikhs dont really have the festival called diwali o festival of lights,despite that in sikh calendar on this very same day, one incident took place wer the sikh sixth guru was released from imprisonment-its actually bandi chorr divas(google up for the rest of d history)
But as for me i hv 3 reasons to celebrate this,
1.as i was born half sikh half hindu,my dad carried out his religion n rituals,so i celebrate diwali after him
2.since i hv been majorly following a sikhism,im celebrating bandi chorr divas
3.im a MALAYSIAN n so i clbrate all festivals,frm hari raya to cny,to vasakhi cap goh meh ,ponggal,christmas..n etc

This year will be the 2nd year for us to be clbrating it away from home,and a place wer indians are like super minority..initially i had no mood nor excitement for it..to the extend i dint even knw the date.
My diwali eve this year has been quit pathetic,spent wit a movie,slept,and out of blue decided to clean up,ended up eating porridge,indeed a delicious one made by a dear fren.
As in years before,today i missed how my mum wud venture for last min diwali shopping,buying stuff for prayers and cleaning up.I miss her preseverance,her hard work to make diwali a better day for the family.

Back at home,all relatives and frens are in the midst of preparing for the next day,all having wonderful tym,playing fireworks and eating all the diwali cookies and murukus.We all wish to be there,o even at least jus to be a part of it.Anticipating calls from family,from frens..wishing to spend it with loved ones.
Maybe the part wich hurts a little is that in middle of the festive rush..people like me far and alone jus make no difference to them.
So tonyt its left me,in my room facing my blog finishing a bowl of delicious porridge.(ignore my self-pity) lol

Tym to sleep,and face a new day.Till then happy diwali everyone.

~everyday is diwali,if ur hapy :)

strawberry shortcake

This is a feeling,im feeling,an unindentified feeling
Its like a cloud on my head,blocking my sunshine away
The world is moist,and im the mushroom
If this is is a storm,wer do i strike
If this is the rain,wen will d rainbow appear
I tried taking a step back,but life came a step closer to me

Flaw-less skin

Ever wondered y some gals wear 5 inch thick make up (literally),*hands on chest,eyes rolled up* and walk around on daily basis..
answer is super simple, she has flaws,she needs to hide them,because


FACT OF LIFE : everybody looks at ur flaws and judges u.
Its funny sometyms wen people tend to judge u firstly by looking at ur flaws..and totally ignore ur bright side..come on everybody has flaws,i have flaws and so do u..but isit really dat necessary to change ur whole perception about a person jus because u saw his/her flaws..
Then,what about ones good deeds...dont they count.

Life is not like "everybody loves raymond"...life is like a big tight slap on ur face.No matter who u are,u re nt perfect.and somehow somewer there is someone who is gona hate u.But y not for a start,u as an individual treat those around u well..u dont lose a thing do u?

heard no more

All i wan to do is let it
All i wan is to be heard
All i wan is u to know wat i have to say
All i have is myself
                               
      ~emo mood turned on ~

bawang putih bawang merah

what do u get wen u cross an onion with a ring : ONION RINGS

what do u get wen u cross an onion with human :TEARS!!!

haha actually kalau dilihat betul betul bawang merah ni ataupun scientifically its called Allium cepa var. ni act cantik tapi kat dalam...macam sesetengah manusia...yg mungkin tidak dikurniakan kesempurnaan dr segi fisikalnya tapi dr segi innerself nya seperti bawang yg membentuk bulatan yg begitu simetris.

Sat lagi mende yg mcm bawang merah ni adalah MASALAH.
hmm masalah tu sebenarnya macam bawang jugak,kalau kita kupas satu persatu kulit bawang (konflik) tu akan sampai jugak ke intinya yang mana jugak solution masalah tu..

Post ni mmg merapu sikit,ntah la..and this fri is exam,tapi tk study lagi!!!

Mode: super annoyed

First of all..hola noob writes..dah lama tak post kat sini...sebab i had way more important tings to do...lol

Ok so basically post ni 1st post dalam bahasa kebangsaan saya.
 So as the title suggests,sekarang ni baru balik holiday tapi dah mode bengang @annoyed giler.Sebab dier?tula nak bgtau ni..

1st of all after foundato course,mmg biasala kan nak buat fb group..united n watsover kan..reason dier sbb nak kasi keep in touching la gitu..but segalanya akan buat org marah bila purpose dier lari..


So basically masing masing dah fly country masing masing,tapi group ni basically di ketuai oleh mereka yg di satu tempat ni la...so one after another semua ceritera pasal mende yg sama..cummon  la tak bosan ke...

dahla 1stly,mmg ini jalan yg dipilih in life..so kalau dah dpt tempat tempe tu be thankful la,its among the best places to do med ok...ni tak tak habis habis mengutuk memaki complain..mknn tk betul,sistim tk betul lecturer tak betul org tak betul...

sedar tk sedar otak deme yg tk betul, seriously tk grateful..tgk account bank la kawan,berapa dpt sebulan...

memang saya agak rude tapi nk ckp depan karang mmg tk dilayan,maklumla lbh kurang dah di anaktirikan...

conclusion nyer - wereva we are,whether we chose to be thr o nt,we somehow took the risks....and He decided it for us,jus accept the fact,live with it if nt without it..and focus on our prorities ok...

Ok ada one more small ting yg make me in this mode is : IM NOT A PUBLIC BANK OK????

so sekiranya ada masalah mcm jatuh tangga ke,kena rashes ke,putus cinta ke,tolong la jangan cari saya,,,saya dah penat layan awak...i hv my own probs to attend to..SEKIAN

If u could see this now...

One fine afternoon after class,as usual i viewed my fb profile...it was ur name all on my home page..in everyones post..posts of bidding farewell,i thought it was a farewell for u to continue ur studies sumwer..bt later i found out it was bidding farewell to u F O R E V E R.
 Came to this life,brought so much joy,left so fast leaving so much sorrow.

U n i were not very close during skul tyms,but somehow we had a close relationship.We've had much memories together.Times of debate,times of duty,times in canteen,times in prefect room..times in tuition.I remember u as a young,energetic,brilliant warm,n tall girl.u never failed to say hi.But one thing i will never forget is the amount of respect u gave me n the smile u never failed to give me.We were never so close,but u seemed to understand me very well.It was like u jus knew the way i worked.

It is so soon dat u left us all.So soon.I knw u never intended to leave,n u never expected it to happen this way.But i dont knw y GOD has made his decision this way,n written ur fate.I knw hw ur parents n sisters are going through this.I dont tink i cn bare to see them.If  u cn read this i wana apologize for all d moments i ve hurt u.Im sorry for my ego of nt adding u on fb.

Ur presence affected my life,n so has ur absence.
Rest in peace Tanusha Ganasan.

pukul berapa sang harimau :)

pukul berapa sang harimau,pukul satu....

pukul berapa sang harimau..masa untuk makan!!!

Basically this entry is about an incident i went through recently which has left me thinking..of yesterday and today.


SCENE: WHEN I WAS 10 ,AND A 10 YEAR OLD NOW.


When i was 10,all i knew was siti nurhaliza and maybe michael jackson.....
10 year old now,knows bieber,has d fav colour as him *purple*,wears purple top to toe,has his book,watched his movie 1000 times,knws he is in a  relationship wit s.gomez,and is gona propose to her on her 19th bday which is few days frm nw.


When i was 10 year old,on a bright sunny morning i would go out in d sun play hide n seek,catch grasshoppers,play football,steal mangoes,play aci kejar,ting ting,marbles,batu seremban..................
10 year old now,plays angry birds and all pizza frenzy on galaxy tabs and watch the disney shit

When i was 10,i had a badminton racquet..
10 year old now,owns a golf club,and golf balls with initial markers.

When i was 10,i had super rings,i had gula gula asam,i had durian flavoured 'chickadees' and panda chewing gums which came with a tatoo
10 year old now,chocolate fondue,cris cut fries..


When i was 10,weight was just a number for me...
10 year old now,a lil chubby cheeks n goes on a diet.

When i was 10 years old a boy was jus a another being...
10 year old now,had a crush wen she was seven with a boy who is in college now
p.s i dint knew wat crush meant :(

When i was 10,my mum made my hair...
10 year old now,mum: hmm see her hairband is  purple
                          child: mum its a scrunchie...

When i was 10,i was a kampung gal
10 year old now,is some americano wana be.

 When i was 10,life was so much simpler,sweeter and fun...

Suddenly i wondered,how would my kids be? a really scary thought..peeps the choice is in ur hands

Special thanx to japanese slippers and POkemon :):)      
By Kampung Gal :)

Cotton candy sweetness

Sticky and sweet, it dissolves quickly in the mouth (due to its amorphous nature) although it feels like wool to the touch. It does not have much of an aroma although the machine itself has a cooked sugar smell when in operation. When it comes in contact with moisture, it becomes sticky and damp. Because the sugar is hygroscopic, and has a very large surface area, it will become coarser, harder and generally less "flossy" once exposed to the atmosphere.SOURCE-WIKIPEDIA

Cotton candy is one of the major thing that symbolises childhood to many of us....a majority if nt all of us definitely love cotton candy....so soft to touch n once its in ur mouth it dissolves leaving a tingling feelings on ur tounge ..*ngee*

Everytime u take a bite of this cottonish woolish soft sweet fiber..u start to see stars..feels like u own the world.jus for a split of a second ur running free in a garden..ur lying on a cloud..

Have we ever wondered why were head over heels with cotton candy when living those days of innocency,bt now even wanting to have it so much we still are reluctant to get one..bt instead of letting it go we improvise ways to still have it in our lifes like this....

Well the point is,the whole cotton candy i hv been talking bout is jus like the comfort zone we create for ourselves.

Just like cotton candy,we often get caught in our comfort zone.
We begin to like something then we love the one thing an then we jus dont wana leave it under any circumstances.
As an example,love..being in love is one wonderful feeling(dats wat i ve heard),needs trust n etc..
But seldom do we realize the circumstances that might be faced,y coz as the saying goes cinta itu buta..u see ntg but the wonderful stars.
Nothing lasts forever,if n death that takes it away,something else will sooner than that..so all i would say is prepare ourselves for the worst..coz anyting cn happen anyhow..
Some people are so very comfortable in their cotton candy,that knowingly they make it go more n more sticky..being ignorant is one of the obvious basic symptoms..
At tyms we need to grow up n leave the cotton cloud,come out to the sunshine n get sticky...
We r to learn,we r to experience,we r to endure..
Lets get out from being so all goody goody happy n overjoyed,coz ur jus closing one eye nt seeing the real side..

Dont trust too much,dont give too much..dont cry too much dont laugh too much...when ur stuck in d mud..get out get a shower..n prepare for another mud :)

last but not least..dont be a cotton candy coz even a cotton candy loses its beauty when it becomes sticky ..

kaching $

Seems like everybody’s got a price,
I wonder how they sleep at night.
When the tale comes first,
And the truth comes second,
Just stop, for a minute and
Smile

Why is everybody so serious!
Acting so damn mysterious
You got your shades on your eyes
And your heels so high
That you can’t even have a good time.

down the memory lane

i miss u,i miss u,i miss u,i miss u....yes I MISS U....my heart is screaming,so is my lungs,my pancreas,my intestines,n my tiny miny brains....

ok dt was jus an over reaction...bt then a question pops into my mind why do we miss someone o sumtings so badly a tyms...coz its a part of our memory thats stuck forever..sometyms memories make u laugh n at tyms cry..

Being aware dat each n every moment we go thru aint gona repeat makes it even harder to let it go..we often reminisce al the moments we went thru wondering why did it ever happen an at other times we are jus deeply dissapointed that those moments are jus left as memories n never will return.We try to move on from them,thinking that maybe jus maybe we can run away frm them..well sometimes we suceed bt then jus like the painted walls,that peels of n starts showing its original colours...memories will be back..at tyms u dont want them to be back,at times when u dont even realize :):)

H.E.R.O

Father’s Day Prayer Lord, please bless our fathers,
these men who mean so much to us,
who are greatly responsible
for who we are and who we are becoming.
Bless them for having the courage
to do what’s necessary to keep us out of trouble,
for making us do the right thing,
for helping us build our character,
even when it makes us angry;
and bless them for pushing us to do our best,
even when they just want to love us.
Bless our fathers for being our protectors,
for leading us through stormy times to safety,
for making us believe that everything will be all right
and for making it so.
Bless our fathers for quietly making a living
to provide for those they love most,
for giving us food, clothing, shelter
and other necessary and not so necessary material things,
for unselfishly investing time and money in us
that they could have spent on themselves.
Bless our fathers, Lord,
for saving some energy for fun,
for leading us on adventures
to explore the outer reaches of ourselves,
for making us laugh,
for being our playmates and our friends.
Bless them for being our secure foundation, our rock,
for holding on tight to us...until it’s time to let us go.
Lord, bless these men we look up to,
our role models, our heroes,
our fathers. 

Years has passed from the last father's day celebration i ever had,even if it was one of d very few we ever celebrated it with u papa,im still glad i was given that opportunity to thank u n every sacrifices u had done for us.Now that u're gone we miss u dearly,but knowing that this was nt ur will n u made the sacrifice.I know ur always there watching n taking care of us.Happy Fathers day papa.For since u have left, mum has taken over all the responsibilities.She has made the best mum and dad as well.She is our both,our everyting.Thanx mum,happy fathers day to u.Dear dad,we love u n miss ur presence a lot.Ur always in our hearts.Rest in peace.

 

ThouSAND isLAND

bag...checked
tshirts......checked
beach tongs....checked
shampoo.....checked
sunshades.....checked
anti-vomit med.....min's gt it
sunblock.........shoott!!!!!!err...bubu(bukan nama sebenar)


So there we head to pulau tidung one of the thousand islands nt so far away frm jakarta.Lead by a few frens who have been there the journey was quite pleasing as we were alredy given the expectations to have.Being quite a katak bawah tempurung myself,havent really got the chance to be travelling via water before.So nt knowing at all hw wud it feel.Certainly,the 'tongkang' did nt offer a five star comfortable cosy cushioned chair.(fact is dat my butt were aching).As i said the 3 hours journey on d tongkang was good in its own way.After gtg a life jacket frm a dear fren,i got to enjoy the hit of waves,taste of the salted droplets,wind messing up my hair n that wonderful morning sun.It was an experience u just cant explain.

Once on the island of tidung,we knew lots were waiting for us,so tired o nt..yeeha berspeda la kita(speda=bicycle)...after a few rounds of feeling like i was in the movie 'sepet'..n all the camwhoring sessions(well the camera jus loves me )...it was then time for some underwater sight seeing..yeap snorkelling baby..the funniest part was,i was asking all kinds of stupid questions when were in water.Eg.hw do breathe,hw do i move left right forward  n back.back??ingat reverse gear ke apa...lolx..bt much of a dissapointment,i was taken out of my comfort zone with my dear fishes n beautiful corals a lil quite too early.Headed too the ever famous 'jembatan cinta'.Okay so we re like supposed to jump frm dat bridge right into the water.N again for a person who cant swim like me..it was scary(jus realised y isit that there are so many cant's n havent's in my life)


The experience of jumping of d bridge was extraordinary.The first two jumps were the cool ones.Meaning to say dat all i hd in mind was hey jump..phoosh water :):) n mas kiki saves me..my hero..haha..(he was kinda cute)But then there was this nex day,wen i took the courage to jump of d bridge.But this last jump was like weird,jus weird..it was as if all the fear was there waiting in frnt of my eyes.I knew i wasnt scared of d water nor of the height..but yet i was jus scared.N special thanx to Gnoy(bukan nama sebenar) who saved me frm drowning..hehe..thanx :):)

If i continue all d details,its gona take forever to finish..so yeah im jumping few chapters,(jus bear with me a lil longer).. the whole tym i had there was one of the most enjoyable.totally away frm the outer world(no fb n fon ntwork)..i was given space of my own to learn,to see n observe wat n how life is in diferrent circumstances.The ocean so wide,its a gift for human kind..a wonderful one.I wondered of how people make the most of the least they have while i complain of having the most of the least.Ive learned so much of d value of frenship n of being aboard with them is all a bout interdepending.
*Life is beautiful..u jus need to see it*
special thanx to all my sweet dear friends who made such a great company,n made it a wonderful trip.
Thanx to kicap,big butt,bubu,gnoy,bintang tiga,ZAKI(nama sebenar),kum casumi,thin,mok cik,MAS KIKI,,n biggest thanx to camera bubu :)

from Dolls

If i knew that was the last time i would hear u
If i knew that was the last time we would have long conversations.
I should have stopped u from saying those words to me
If i knew u would hide in daily rush,
If i knew u wouldnt call anymore,just to check how i did in exams
If only i knew there will be no news of u for a while just like before we met again.

That was the nyt,u told me things i wanted to hear n also i never wanted to know about u
You said its ok,its nobodies fault
You also agreed to not change anything
You said u will still call n stil listen to me when i need u
You said u'll still be there
I shouldnt have believed it.

If i knew my answers would make me lose u
I would have lied


Im nt in love,but u were close to me

You were there when no one knew i need to be heard
And that was exactly what u did

Coz now i see no more of u
I wait for ur name to reappear,but its not happening
I dunno how u are,where u are.
Its ok if  need to be away
As i knw i have nt been of much help to you.
But all i want to say is thank u 4 always keeping me in ur prayers.

Lil things dat reminds u of it

“We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation. It's one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path.”-Paulo coelho

 

someone kept singing this the whole nite..i hope u enjoy :)

Dreams becomes nightmares

During ur chilhood,whether ur a girl or a boy u often have u childhood lover.Its the person who protects u frm being bullied by other kids,takes blame on sumting u did n shares his sweets n chocolates with u.Often without realizing(assuming its a girl),he moulds the image of how u want ur 'prince charming on a white horse' would be.Imagination of getting married with the person,wearing a white gown,dreaming of what would it be like if it really happens.As time goes by,comes a point where he dissapears n u both start growing up.As the hormone increases,distance increases too.Both grows up,one to be a swan n another a hero.And then the swan spreads her wings.She sees the world,she meets people she learns about life.At tyms she meets someone who teaches her the meaning of love,someone who she knws she cn count on..but she lets it go out of hands.Sometimes she rushes into things.At one point of her life she meets the childhood lover again.Maybe this time broken hearted.Both knowing the past but none knowing the present.And finally comes the moment that she had always dreamt of..time to decide where to bring the relationship next.And sometimes that dream just becomes a nightmare,n thats when she has given her heart n soul to someone else n has no rights to take it back.

Often we are caught in love triangles,sometimes u make it happen dat way n at other times it jus happens.Ever heard of a love square??lolx..it jus gets way more complicated doesnt it.A woman has a soft heart,n a guy who knws the way to it certainly gets there.So the question is,is it possible for a woman nt knw what is the best decision to make.At times u cant hurt any one,but at the end somebody is gona get hurt real bad..n its gona be u.

People say love comes once,i continue,u never really knw who how n when.If ur lucky u will nt miss it,but if u make mistakes u'll end up choosing the wrong person...

Mum,my heroine..

 Everything Mom

How did you find the energy, Mom

To do all the things you did,

To be teacher, nurse and counselor

To me, when I was a kid.

How did you do it all, Mom,

Be a chauffeur, cook and friend,

Yet find time to be a playmate,

I just can’t comprehend.

I see now it was love, Mom

That made you come whenever I'd call,

Your inexhaustible love, Mom

And I thank you for it all.

 Happy mothers day mummy,i miss u so much.i wish i could celebrate it with u...im sorry for being rude wen u care too much its coz dats wen im missing u so much and wen my tears are ready to roll down.

journey in siloam :P

The last I posted on this was on one of d days that I hate the most every year since the year 2002.Despite being my favourite month somehow the month April brings back a lot of memories.The sweet memories of April n also the worst memories ever in my life.Ok enough of that.Its time to get on to what I have to say 4 2day.

Last week  was a long long week for me.On ‘dat’ particular day I started vomiting n purging after lunch.By 8 I went ti the hospital to get myself examined,I was given one bottle of  infuse.By the time I was home it was about 11,I took my medicine n I tried to sleep.Sleeping was far,I vomited out again n the whole cycle started  again.At around 3am I was admitted into the hospital for the 1^st time of my life.I knew it was gona be a totally new experience for me.The 1^st few days life was quite tough there,I had fever n uncountable times of toilet rounds,complications due to dehydration..phewww I duwan talk bout it.(i jus did *rolls eyes*)

Well as long as I have been there I was taken care of really well.The paramedics were very kind to me,they were professionals.It was a nice hospital,facilities were good.Lucky me I had the television right in front of me.hehe..most of the time spent there was by sleeping.

While being there I realized bout facts about people n life.I learnt few things bout my family,friends and those who I never knew before.One of d major things I would say is that when u are abroad,away from ur home away from ur family.All u have is ur friends that u came with,friends u stay with and study with.They are ur closest family and trust me they understand you more than anything.They are those who are there for u to send u to the hospital anytime of the day,sacrificing their sleep,sacrificing classes and all the things that they have in their schedule.Ur friends are those who are there 4 u all the time,giving u words of encouragement,inducing u to be emotionally strong and go through with the illness.I would like to thank my true friends who had been there 4 me and had not left me on my own at all.Kokila,Komalah,eswary,Zaki marsoha,balan anne,thiru anne,noja and all of them.

I knw how worried my mum n my sis were during that time,they called evry hour to check on their litte baby(haha dis is wen I get perasan).Well I dun blame them,blood calls 4 it.Well it was a great exposure of people I know in my life who really care and who are jus there but the couldn’t care less bout u.They were some of them I called friends,I cared for who jus turned their backs on me n there were those who I had never met before who were there together with me.They were those who I had always neglected who came forward at that time to giv me encouragement.I have learnt so much from it.I have learnt not to trust to much and not to untrust to much.Sometimes in life they are people who u nvr met before who turns out to be god sent angels,n sometimes they are those u who call frens who never turn up when u r in need.Well,maybe all I have to say is if ur nt there when im in trouble,then u don’t have the rights to be a part of my happiness :)

Ten Minus One

In our Hearts

We thought of you with love today,
But that is nothing new.
We thought about you yesterday,
And days before that too.
We think of you in silence.
We often speak your name.
Now all we have is memories.
And your picture in frame.
Your memory is our keepsake.
With which we'll never part.
God has you in his keeping.
We have you in our heart.


By Rose de Leon

faun n los

Life as it is...we are all given a chance to make the best out of this life.Asked to define hw does this life mean to u,i dun tink anyone could give any answer without doubts in their mind.People often say life is a roller coster,indeed its true.Wen we are low on the ground,we complain,n wen we are high up?Sometimes we think wat happens to us its the worst that might happen to anyone..but nt till u knw wat others have gone thru..N sometimes we even realize that,but dont knw y,i guess human nature..we still complain.Life is nt easy,who said it was??If its nt easy for u,its nt easy for anyone else.There r gona be lots of thorns n flowers to walk on.We often decide on wat we want but nt all we want is all u get..there are times u have to let go of sometings.Wen i say sometings,i mean things,dreams,wishes n oso people.Yes letting go of people is nt easy,it involves human speciality but also biggest weakness-emotions.Our lives revolve around people,let it be ur family,ur frens or those dat 'u just bump in to'.N wen they exist the equation goes like this people+emotions=attachment :)
Hmm dats y i said its nt easy..well losing someone close to u o someone u love involves a lot of emotional strength.We are never ready to lose someone forever,we tend to take things 4 guaranted forgetting that nothing is permanent in life.When someone leaves unexpectedly,we break down.Because it hurts so much,knwing the fact that the person is gone forever n we nvr had a chance to say goodbye.But on the other hand,have we ever thot wat if we had the chance to bid the final farewell..Imagine knowing the person u r with,the person u love so much is gona be there with u 4 a short while more,knowing that its gona be the last tym ur spending tym with the person.Imagining hw life would be wen the person is gone..realizing that there is ntg u can do to nt make it happen..well its jus harder..But somehow..life is hw it is..

 p.s jus got the news of a fren diagnosed with leukemia...praying that he n his family remain strong in enduring it..